Thursday, 8 July 2010

daily cosmic calendar




we are want to know daily cosmic calendar

The arrival of Gemini Moon (12:52AM PDT) signals an increasing urge to be versatile, flexible and open to new ideas. Reading, writing and research are energized to the hilt. This is amplified this morning as the Sun parallels Mercury (4:32AM PDT) while Mercury forms a subtle and yet still nurturing, 30-degree rapport with Venus (7:34AM PDT). Add on lunar 60-degree supportive links to Uranus



DEADLY QUESTION 2: “Why didn’t you tell the kid to leave you alone????”

Bullying peaks during the tween years and is escalating and far more vicious. Reports say one in three tweens are involved in bullying either as a victim or bully. Tactics include: social exclusion, racial, verbal, sexual or emotional abuse, relational aggression, or electronic bullying (cell phones, websites, pagers or email). Research shows tweens often don’t tell their parents that they are being victimized for fear of retaliation and humiliation, or that you’ll say, “Tell the kid to leave you alone!” (Which they say is the worst advice you can give. A tween often cannot fend for herself and needs help in figuring out safety options and strategies to defend herself. In fact, bullying is a repeated pattern of willful cruelty. Bullies do not go away and generally continue to target victims, which can cause severe emotional ramifications.



DEADLY QUESTION 7: “Why don’t you just get over it and move on?”

Peer relationships are critical and play a big part of an adolescents self-esteem. Tweens are discovering the “opposite sex” and have their first “crushes.” When there’s a friendship tiff or breakup with a “first love”, ah the anguish! Though the anguish may seem juvenile, don’t dismiss your kid’s hurt and tell her to “Get over it.” Their hurt is intense and real. (Remember way back. Did you get over it easily?) It may take a while for them to bounce back–especially during these years when one of their top concerns is “peer humiliation.” Not only are tweens concerned about their own pain, but what “all the other kids are saying.” And don’t dismiss boys! (Says the mom of three). Research shows they often have a tougher time bouncing back than girls.

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