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Thursday, 15 July 2010

TIME Poll: Voters Like Obama More Than His Domestic Policies



As he juggles the demands of a moribund recovery, multiple foreign conflicts and the reverberations of a catastrophic oil spill, President Obama still has more supporters than opponents. In a new TIME poll, 49% of respondents say they approve of the President's performance, compared to 45% who disapprove. And yet the President's popularity is at odds with the stinging appraisals of many of his signature policies, which lead 56% of voters to say the U.S. is on the wrong track.
Just 44% of poll respondents backed Obama's stewardship of the economy, which 90% rate as fair or poor. Forty-three percent of poll respondents say the $862 billion Recovery Act, which a July 14 White House analysis credits with creating or saving some 3 million jobs, has helped, while 53% think the country would be better off if the money hadn't been spent. Despite economists' assertion that an additional injection of capital would help catalyze a recovery and head off a double-dip recession, such a step would be politically perilous, with two thirds of respondents - 83% of conservatives, 38% of liberals and 67% of self-identified "middle" voters - opposing a second stimulus. (See TIME's special: After One Year, a Stimulus Report Card.)
While Obama's approval rating on foreign affairs remain high - he earned a 52%-41% split overall, with respondents favoring his handling of the Afghan war by a 47%-44% margin - his domestic marks are considerably worse. Fifty-four percent of voters disapprove of Obama's leadership during the oil-spill crisis, and 53% are unhappy with his performance on immigration policy.
The survey contained a batch of good news for both the President and Congressional Democrats, however. Asked to assign blame for the balky economy, 61% point to the Bush Administration, while 27% fault Obama. The President notched a favorable 31%-26% split between voters who believe his economic policies have helped and those who think they hurt, while nearly 80% believe the economy is stable or heading in the right direction. And despite the economic upheaval and political acrimony that have marked his term thus far, voters aren't pining for Obama's predecessor; they tapped Obama over George W. Bush by a 53%-33% margin. Nor are they convinced that Sarah Palin is up to the challenges of the Oval Office. Obama clobbered Palin, 55%-34%, in a hypothetical 2012 matchup that should have Democrats salivating. (See ten races that have Democrats worried for 2010.)
At the other end of Pennsylvania Avenue, Capitol Hill Republicans giddy at the prospect of reclaiming one or both chambers of Congress in November may want to temper their expectations slightly. By a 43%-39% margin, voters place greater trust in the Democratic Party's ability to preside over an economic recovery, and 43% said they currently plan to vote for a Democratic congressional candidate, edging the 42% who prefer their district's Republican. (See ten races that have Republicans worried for 2010.)
If the GOP manages to capture the House or Senate, the party's promise to pare back the federal deficit may collide with voters who have grown accustomed to the benefits that come with that largesse. Asked how they would reduce the deficit, respondents favored trimming the defense budget, a measure that is anathema to the leadership of a party that prizes its historical edge on national security issues. Other paths to deficit reduction highlighted the ideological gulf between Republicans and Democrats. Conservatives were more than twice as receptive (49%-21%) as liberals to cutting unemployment compensation, and they remain wary of healthcare spending, with 52% supporting fewer resources for the sector, compared to 8% of liberals. And despite widespread agreement that the trajectory of entitlement spending is untenable, tackling the hot-button issue would require a willingness to weather the repercussions. Voters cited Social Security and Medicare as the two expenses they were least eager to cut.

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Tuesday, 13 July 2010

Do Men Like Bitches?

Do you know this Do Men Like Bitches?


When he calls you back, act really cold,” my married friend H. orders. “Men love bitches.”

“But I don’t want to be a b---- ,” I answer lamely. “I just want him not to take me for granted.”

“And I just want my kids to stop eating craft supplies,” she answers, as toddlers shriek in the background.

“Ugh…I thought I was done playing games.”

“Listen,” she says, dropping her voice an octave. “You’re not done playing games until there’s a ring on your finger.”

“I’m not looking for a ring. I’m just trying to sort out my Saturday night plans.”

“Stop being so nice, sweetie, guys don’t wa—Mallory Ann, glue sticks don’t go in mouths!!!”

The line goes dead. And I’m left alone to ponder my pitiful lack of bitchiness.

Read Flirting For Favors

Call me crazy, but my default nature when I’m dating someone I like is to, you know, be kind to him. Return his phone calls. Smooth over tensions. Avoid voodoo hexes.

But the more I think about it, the more I realize this whole Miss Nice Girl thing could be backfiring. In the past, all that forgiving and forgetting had only resulted in me forgiving a lot of bad boys who, in turn, forgot about me.

Maybe all this time I should have been difficult, demanding and as unpredictable as a Vegas slot machine. Is that what keeps men coming back for more?

Betty’s Gay BFF Brian Clark says that relationships are like rubber bands – they require a little resistance on both ends to stay strong. Perhaps my kindness had been leaving me limp in the relationship drama department. Was my sweet disposition just a boring penny slot that paid out every time?

I’m certainly no doormat – I never accept truly rotten behavior from the men I date. And I’m sure there’s a village of people out there who think I’m a total witch-with-a-b. But for small relationship transgressions, I do my best to keep calm and carry on. Does that make me a pushover? A gracious girlfriend? Or a pent up powder keg of resentment, known to explode in plumes of rage over the wrong kind of Wheat Thins?

I guess I just answered myself.

But in the interest of thoroughness, I decide to ask a guy friend for a second opinion.

“That’s another issue altogether,” he says. “You’re confusing being nice with passive-aggressively expecting men to be mindreaders.”

Aha! So men do like women who say exactly what they want, when they want it and how they like it and yell at you if don’t get it right – they like bitchy women?

“No,” my friend says slowly, as though he’s explaining colors to a preschooler. “Men don’t generally like bitches.”
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