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Tuesday, 13 July 2010

Ask Yourself These Questions Before You Buy Anything

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Every little penny helps when you're trying to save money. Financial guru Beth Kobliner shares these important questions to ask yourself before making any purchase. Stick to this advice and your bank account will thank you.

1. Do you have to buy this item?
Could you borrow this item from a friend or swap for it? If swapping's an option, check out websites such as paperbackswap.com for books, swapbabygoods.com for tots' toys, or swapmamas.com for household items and kitchen supplies. Better yet (and more fun) organize a swap party to get your friends in on the saving.

2. Have you found the best deal?
Before you make a big-ticket purchase, compare prices at three similar stores. And if you're shopping online, don't hit the checkout button until you've looked for a discount code or coupon (get the lowdown on coupons and other overlooked money-saving tips). Websites such as fatwallet.com, dealio.com and retailmenot.com can help you find offers from hundreds of retailers such as Old Navy and the Container Store. Check out restaurant.com for deals to your favorite dining spots and these miracle websites for savings on just about everything else. Also, remove some of the "convenience" of online shopping by not storing your credit card number or password at the site. That way, you'll have to take extra steps to buy, which may quell the urge to splurge. Or do this to get anything for less.

3. Have you gotten your z's?
If you're tempted to make a big-ticket purchase, sleep on it (find out what skimping on sleep can do to you). Research shows that we're willing to spend more money when we're emotional, so a delay can help take the drama out of a big decision. Plus, living without a new sofa for a night (or a week) may convince you that you'd rather use the money for something else.

4. Are you buying just because it's on sale?
Do you really need another pair of black slacks, or does the price just seem too good not to grab them? People often buy more than they planned to at discount outlets. And as someone's mom once said: A bargain isn't a bargain if you don't ever wear it. Here's how to shop on the cheap for things you really want.

5. Have you asked about future deals?
If there's an item you're eyeing, tell the store manager that you'd love to know if it's going on sale; some retailers will hold it for you for a day or two. If it's a place you shop regularly (or an online retailer), sign up to receive email notices about sales and special promotions — but only if you can resist impulse buying stuff you don't need.

6. Do you love it and do you need it?
Don't pull the trigger on a purchase until the answer to both is a resounding yes. If you're not fully enamored when you're buying the item, you really won't be when the bill arrives. If you really do need it, but can wait, time your purchase to the ideal saving season.

7. Can you afford it?
If you don't have money in the bank to pay for the item in full, please don't buy it. No matter how inexpensive it is, charging it to a credit card if you carry a balance just isn't worth it. In fact, the amount you pay in interest could wind up doubling the cost (or more) — and that's no bargain! Try these six ways to tame credit card debt.
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Thursday, 8 July 2010

10 Little Dating Mistakes That Could Be Keeping You Single




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Does your love life always seem to stall after the first or second date? You might be shooting yourself in the romantic foot without knowing it. Check out the missteps that experts and women who’ve been there say could be holding you back from love.

Dating mistake: Not letting go of the day’s frustrations before a first date

“When chatting about your day, it may seem natural to bring up the bad day you had at work, the argument with your friend or the fact that you couldn’t find parking earlier,” says James Wadley, Ph.D., the author of Would You Marry You? But on a first date you might want to “keep your bad attitude at home, and then go out to meet others to show them how adaptable, resilient and sexy you can be.”

Dating mistake: Asking the “five year plan” question too soon

“Talking about at what age you’d like to get married and have kids too early on in the conversation changes the whole tone of trying to get to know someone,” says Jessi Bockting, from Louisville, Kentucky. “It suddenly feels like a job interview.”

Dating mistake: Seeing singlehood as a problem

This kind of thinking can lead women to believe they’re being “too picky” or “too needy,” says Karin Anderson, Ph.D., the author of It Just Hasn’t Happened Yet, and it can cause them to create a fake personality. “When they present this phony self, they naturally attract the wrong men, and ultimately these relationships fail,” she says.

Related: 10 Lies Women Tell Themselves About Men and Love

Dating mistake: Not replenishing your supply of single girlfriends

“Continuing to make friends when you’re single can be as important as getting out and meeting men,” says Kate Galvin, from Philadelphia. “When you don’t have a circle of girls also facing singledom, you don’t have anyone kicking your butt to get out there and meet people. It’s easier to hang out with your married/in a relationship/platonic pals than motivate yourself to go out.”

Dating mistake: Watching too many chick flicks

“Chick flicks paint a vision of love that just isn’t realistic, and then you have all these expectations and you start painting a picture of ‘the perfect man’ in your mind. But a person’s imperfections are what make him interesting, and that doesn’t mean he won’t be right for you.” 
— Amy Landon, Louisville, Ky.

Dating mistake: Going out in one huge group

“The best size group to go out with is three,” says Shannon Fox, the author of Last One Down the Aisle Wins. Going out alone might invite men to talk to you but only because you seem vulnerable and desperate. Two is too easily unbalanced. (What nice guy wants to ask a girl to dance if it means leaving her friend all alone?) And four is too intimidating—no guy wants to risk putting himself out there in front of a gang of potentially critical women.”

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Monday, 5 July 2010

Mia Michaels, Adam Shankman Named 'So You Think You Can Dance' Judges



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We all know that the guest judges on 'So You Think You Can Dance' can tango with the best of them, but occasionally, even the most accomplished choreographers want to trade the toe-tapping for a more verbal form of the rumba.

Following the news that former judge Mary Murphy will be ditching the judging table full-time to provide more choreography in season 7 (Murphy will still serve as a guest judge), The Wrap is now reporting that previous guest judge Mia Michaels will be stepping up to fill her spot (and her initials) alongside returning experts Nigel Lythgoe and Adam Shankman.
Michaels first joined the talent contest in 2005 as a contributing choreographer, and has gone on to win two Emmy Awards for her choreography on Celine Dion's 'Calling You' and 'Mercy' TV shows.

"I am extremely happy that Mia and Adam have returned and agreed to be resident judges," show-creator Lythgoe said in a statement. "Mia's outspoken approach combined with Adam's passion will definitely add a fresh new chemistry to the panel."

Michaels' appointment is one of several new shake-ups designed to reinvigorate the franchise. Other adjustments include 10 finalists in competition and only one elimination per week. Competitors are also set to switch partners every week, dancing with one of several 'SYTYCD' all-star dancers, all recognizable former finalists who are skilled in numerous styles of dance.

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Wardrobe Malfunction on 'So You Think You Can Dance' (VIDEO)



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Why do we watch 'So You Think You Can Dance'? For the dancing? For the technical artistry? Yes, of course, we watch it for those reasons. But then, there are some potential side-benefits as well. And so we present you with these three simple words: Female ... Wardrobe ... Malfunction.

[Spoiler alert.]

On tonight's 'SYTYCD' (Wed., 8PM ET on Fox), Lauren and Neil danced to a Broadway tune, and Lauren was wearing a sparkling 1940s-style dress. And then, things went a little wrong -- when the top strap of her dress broke.

Stunningly, Lauren managed to make it through her entire performance without flashing anyone. (Though the camera seemed to protectively zoom away from her for a second -- remember that this show is being broadcast live.) Even more impressively, Lauren's dance routine was great! Although the judges were also kind of focused on the near-nudity.

While discussing the dance and the wardrobe malfunction, judge Nigel Lythgoe said this: "I enjoyed that tremendously." He instantly got this reply from Mia Michaels: "I'm sure you did!" Zing! Well played, Mia!

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