How to Have Great Phone Sex

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GALTime.com Love and Sex expert Dr. Jane Greer has a lot to say on this topic! She says, "Phone sex is a great way to stay sexually connected even when you're physically apart." OK, that sounds good in theory, but often people end up feeling like they're 'acting', playing a role and it's not always easy. (We're not all Vera Farmiga acting out the hot, sexy scene with dreamboat George Clooney in Up in the Air!)

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"The key is to talk about what you like, what feels good, and what turns you on so that your words and tone of voice excite your partner," says Dr. Greer. Just like a strip tease in person... a phone tease works the same way. Let him know what you are wearing and then turn up the heat by taking it off a little at a time (or at least making him think you are!) Dr. Greer says the key is to DESCRIBE in detail everything you are thinking and then doing.
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Woman Jailed for Loud Sex

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A 49-year-old British woman has already spent time in jail for disturbing her neighbors with her high volume level during sex.

Caroline Cartwright has been married 25 years and she and her husband have sex, apparently quite loudly, every night, causing her neighbors to claim sleep interruption that interferes with their daily lives. She was given a 12-week suspended prison term, but if she violates her antisocial behavior code, she will be sent to jail.

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First of all, bravo for having sex every night after 25 years of marriage. If her neighbors are accurate, she and the hubs are getting it on from midnight until 3 a.m. (The couple did switch to daytime sex so they wouldn't disturb the neighbors' sleep, only to have complaints filed by the mailman and a woman

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6 Reasons Your Marriage Is Failing

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What does a stable marriage look like? Steadfast, enduring, permanent? In today's marriage climate, those words don't seem to reflect many marriages I know. Couples are cheating, divorcing and falling apart and that's not even counting the celebrity marriages. When I said "I do," I said it hoping my marriage would endure. Yet, the longer I've been married the more I see how easy it is to loose your footing on the foundations of your marriage. Here are 6 ways that I know marriages can stumble.
We fail to create a stable marriage when we rely on our spouse to fulfill all of our needs.
It is unfair to think that our spouse will meet all of our needs. Being a guy who is trying to align his life with the Bible, I tend to go back to the story about Adam and Eve. When Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit, they were kicked out of paradise where all their needs were met. They were then cursed to work hard for everything they needed. Whether you believe that story or not, the truth remains that it takes a lot of work and more than one person to fill all the needs in our lives. We long for all of our needs to be met by one person, but that just isn't going to happen. Your spouse is human, not divine. Your spouse may be great but you can't expect them to be your Eden.

We fail to create a stable marriage when we think its all about ourselves.
To quote from Rick Warren's book The Purpose Driven Life, "It's Not About You."

But, we do make our marriages all about it. When it comes to relationships, we think only of ourselves and our needs. I admit I am REALLY selfish. I want my Beautiful Wife™ to take care of all of my wants and needs. But what if I shifted my perspective a bit and focused on serving her and actually asked questions about what she desires? When it comes to serving my wife, I am often inconsiderate and that causes problems. I have to remember that my marriage is not all about me.

We fail to create a stable marriage when we make the other person the center of our life.
We all love a good romantic movie. I'm a sucker for "The American President" with Michael Douglas and Annette Bening. But life and marriage don't work like they do in the movies. You can't just run around always thinking about that special someone. I believe that marriage is the most important relationship we can have on this planet; however, if you make your mate the one and only center of your universe, your life is gonna be screwy. I said earlier that marriage is not all about you, but guess what? Marriage is not all about your spouse either. You can't be around your spouse every waking minute. That's just creepy. Give your spouse the space to grow and be who they are.

We fail to create a stable marriage when we make being happy the most important thing in our lives.
I think married couples should be happy. If they aren't happy they should be working on being happy. But happiness isn't the most important thing in a marriage. Dr. Corey Allan said it well on his blog SimpleMarriage.net, "Marriage is about growing us up." And guess what? Growing pains hurt.

Our culture gives us so many messages about how this 'thing' or that 'thing' will make us happy and fulfilled. Yet, if we approach our marriage with an attitude that asks, "What are you going to do for me to make me happy?" Your marriage is going to be a tough road. Marriage is about growing and learning to be a better person. Its not about being happy all the time.

We fail to create a stable marriage when we compare our marriage to others.
"Oh, the Phillips family down the street has the greatest, most happy marriage that I have ever seen!" Sure, but what about the stuff you don't see? When we start comparing our marriage to other marriages, we set our relationships up for failure. When we compare, we are taking what we know about our relationship and comparing it to what we DON'T know about someone else's. This can cause bitterness and dissatisfaction, which breeds contempt. No marriage needs that.

We fail to create a stable marriage when we make our marriage about romantic feelings.
Passion eventually fades. To make your marriage last you have to be committed to your spouse no matter how you feel. The romantic feelings may come and go, but your feelings of togetherness and bondedness don't have to quit. Become a student of your spouse; learn everything you can about them. It will keep you interested in and interesting to the one you love.
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Worst ways to break up

Breaking up is never easy, and there’s only one good way to do it: in person.

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But there are all sorts of bad ways. If you can imagine a heart-wrenching, nasty, vengeful, or just plain insensitive way to break up with someone, the odds are someone’s done it. Here, for your painful pleasure, is a roundup of some of the worst ways to get dumped—from postmodern to classically tasteless.

By text. It may be the age of iEverything, but breaking up over the phone was never cool, so why would anyone think texting the bomb is socially acceptable? Yet an international survey conducted by the market research company Synovate found that 1 in 8.33 cell phone owners had dumped someone via text message, and 1 in 12.5 reported having gotten the bad news that way.

Seems more than a bit crass. But maybe it’s just a consequence of our growing dependence on electronic communication. After all, 1 in 5 respondents to the same survey reported having used text messaging to set up a first date. If you start that way, why not end that way?

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10 Great Moments in Sports P.D.A.

The best moment of the World Cup arguably happened after the final game. During an interview with his reporter girlfriend, Sara Carbonero, Spain's Cup winning captain, Iker Casillas, went for the gold. He grabbed Carbonero and planted a wet one on her, reducing her on-air professionalism to bumbling giddiness. It won over everyone, even Switzerland.

But that wasn't the only time in sports history that adrenaline and hormones have paired with king-of-the-world delusions for a moment of sheer chemistry. Kissing bandits have been stealing bases for years.

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After Drew Brees won the Superbowl this year, he went to BrittanyWorld. The quarterback for the New Orleans Saints planted one, for an extended period of time, on his wife, who he met in college at Purdue University. Eat your heart out, Magic Mountain.
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User post: This Week in Celebrity Fashion: Summer Casual

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This week, we’re taking a break from red carpet glam because frankly, it’s just too damn hot. Time for some easy summer looks which we could actually afford, find and wear. Don’t worry, they’ll up their game as soon as the humidity goes down.

You know how June through September, your hair decides to escape the confines of your hard work with product and just lives it up? Well, if we use Beyonce as a barometer, you should just let it go. In contrast to her usual super sleek blowouts, her curl explosion looks adorable. I also like her easy to wear jumpsuit, which looks feminine thanks to the loose draping. And it wouldn’t be Lady B without some crazy heels.


A week ago, I was ragging on Jada for looking ridiculous and then she rebounds spectacularly with this summer look. I’m a big fan of the T-shirt dress because it works without the dreaded “trying too hard” curse and the sequins jazz it up so perfectly. And if that’s not enough, the taupe and black cutout shoes take the temperature up a few extra notches.

Bryce is a newbie to COTS but I had to include this look because I thought it was adorable. The messy updo is perfect for the season and the sundress is red carpet worthy because of the gold accents. Everything about this seems effortless and right.

I usually have nothing but love for Zoe but I’m just as unhappy as she looks with this outfit. Her thing is always taking something and putting a bit of twist on it. This is just too obvious. The dress is way too tight and the one shoulder + cutout just seem trashy. The shoes seem giant for someone of her thinness and overwhelm her frame.

J’adore Marion in this Dior! This dress looks so delicate that it seems painted on her. Lace? Love. Bow? Love. Unexpected nude shoes? Like. But it’s all about the dress, with its slight tulip shape. She keeps it simple, without jewelry and just glows.

Is it wrong that after all this time (and so many kids later), we still compare Jen and Angie? Both were working business looks this week, which is always funny to me considering that they could show up to in a meeting in PJ’s, sweats or a granny robe and people would still slobber all over them.

I like Jen’s summery look but don’t get all the colors. Navy scarf with black jacket and brown sandals and a cream bag? A little too much dressing in the dark going on for me.

I find it hilarious that Angie looks like she’s wearing the exact same jacket but she goes for more matching looks with the loose top and matching peeptoes. The winner? Oh, why be cruel?

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Expensive Face Creams: Worth the Cash?

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I have never really gotten the legions of women who are devoted to certain extremely pricey face creams.
La Mer Creme de la Mer, for example, sells for a whopping $1,390 per container!

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And while most of us aren't exactly delving into our life savings for face cream, I know plenty of women with relatively modest means who spend hundreds of dollars on Arbonne or Estee Lauder or Shiseido or Lancome face products.

The question I have for you --

Are expensive face creams and serums really worth the money?

I've tried a bunch of them and here's what I think ...

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Thanks to my mom, for whom shopping at expensive department stores is a vocation, I have an enormous bag full of samples of pretty much every face cream and serum known to man. I have used all of them at one time or another. And I can't really say I've seen any difference between them and the drugstore brands whatsoever. I've wanted to. But I didn't.

In addition, as a blogger, I've been sent countless face creams and lotions and masques to review, most of them well beyond my normal budget. I've used them until they were gone -- I'm frugal that way. And still?

The only time I've personally noticed a difference was when a friend who also happened to be an Arbonne consultant conned, I mean, talked me into trying the Arbonne face regimen for a weekend. After only a day or two, I noticed a huge difference in my skin. It felt great!

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The trouble was that the entire line of products I needed to buy in order to get that feeling added up to more than $300. The other problem was that the regimen involved five or six different products at morning and at night. And what mother has time for that?!

So for me, it has been (drumroll please) ...


Neutrogena Fresh Foaming Cleanser (Drugstore.com, $6.59). Seriously. I love this stuff. It cleans my face and removes makeup without making my skin feel tight afterward.

I follow it up with Neutrogena Healthy Skin Face Lotion with SPF 15 and Alpha Hydroxy (Drugstore.com, $11.99).
And lately, I've been using eye cream, too, as a preventative measure, although I'm not seeing any major results.
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